11 Mar Even billionaires are concerned about the “costs” of divorce

Billionaire T. Boone Pickens was recently divorced from his 4th wife and chose collaborative practice to settle his divorce.

For the whole story, go to http://www.bizjournals.com/dallas/blog/2013/03/t-boone-pickens-on-how-to-save.html?ana=e_abd&u=rk2Eh9uif4Sgj7UM9KhZGpj2jD7&goback=%2Egde_2936590_member_219548098

“The collaborative approach saves both money and emotional wear and tear on families.” Pickens said.

Should non billionaire couples consider the costs of divorce before choosing how they divorce?  Couples should do their research about different processes and the costs of each process.

Creating a  separation agreement with the help of a mediator means you share the cost of one mediator.   If you are choosing the collaborative law approach, you are each working with your own lawyers however,  much of the work can be taken on with the help of  other collaborative team members.

If you have a family professional, rather than your own lawyers,  they help to create and draft a parenting plan.  This is  a shared cost (usually at a lower hourly rate than lawyers).  If you use the assistance of a divorce financial professional, like a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (also usually at a lower hourly rate than lawyers) to help with gathering the financial information, you’re sharing that cost (and the work too as there is usually one spouse that has handled all the family finances and is better at accessing all the financial statements and documents).

Billionaires become billionaires not only because they make millions… they also recognize when they have the opportunity to save a million or two.

15 May Financial stability is top of mind in grey divorce

From Marion Korn’s blog http://marionkorn.com/index.php/financial-stability-is-top-of-mind-in-grey-divorce/

At the time in life when incomes start to shrink and retirement is approaching, divorce costs are likely not in the budget.  A lifetime of planning for the future can be deeply undermined if emotions get the better of good sense.

Divorce among couples in their 50’s and 60’s is on the rise.  Whatever the cause, the effect is that a new strategic financial plan is needed.  Additional living costs will be a certain result.  And postponed retirement may be another.

Luckily there are good options that can control the cost of settling all the details in a “late in life” divorce.  Gone are the days when divorce meant court and the delays and expense that entailed.

Collaborative Practice (also called Collaborative Law) is a popular choice among separating couples who want to work out their futures with respect for one another.  They also recognize that preservation of their assets is key in ensuring that they can both look forward to financial stability.

The collaborative process is about management.  The well trained lawyers manage the negotiations by making sure their clients are well informed and that they have the time they need to fully understand the effect of the choices they make.

The financial outcomes are also managed by the financial professionals who can translate the clients’ thoughts and choices about their futures into numbers that illustrate the realities.

Managing the costs of separation is the first step in re-establishing a plan for the future.

Call Marion Korn at  416-915-7000 for more information about Collaborative Practice and how this approach is well suited for late in life divorce.

17 Jun Do you only work with women? Not anymore!

After months of hard work and collaboration, the official launch of Mutual Solutions for Couples took place today.  We unveiled the website  at  a breakfast  at the Verity Club.  Take a look at www.mutualsolutions45.com After a few technical glitches… why does the internet connection always failed when you need it the most?  we had a great morning. Those that came  shared in our excitement  for this  new approach for separating couples.  They enjoyed the opportunity to tour this amazing women’s club too!